Today, I saw my neighbor at the grocery store. “How’s your wife?” I asked, standing in the canned vegetable aisle.
“Hanging in there. She still has another month of recuperation.”
I wish I could say his wife is the only one who entered the new year with a major injury. But I know multiple people who are recovering from broken bones and surgery.
Other friends live with chronic pain, depression, and debilitating diseases like Parkinsons, and in one woman’s case—terminal cancer.
C.S. Lewis said, “Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.”
Have you—or someone you love—been roused by pain? Patience worn thin?
When Job was tormented by grief and agonizing pain, he implored God, “Why am I suffering?” However, he refused to follow his wife’s advice and curse God.
Instead, he said, “‘Shall we indeed accept good from God and not accept adversity?’ In this, he did not sin with his lips.” (Job 2:10)
My mentor, Loretta, calls this …
Job’s Intolerable Compliment—God trusted Job to honor Him in his circumstances.
Even Jesus prayed on the night of his arrest, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow….Abba, Father, everything is possible for you. Take this cup from me. Yet, not what I will, but what you will.” (Mark 14:34-36)
Honoring God in our adversity begins with the heart. Accepting and trusting God’s sovereignty.
Several of my friends deal with chronic pain and health issues. They pray for the absence of pain. They believe God has the power to restore their health, but they agree—for whatever reason—God’s allowed poor health in their lives.
They’ve come to a place of submission.
- Accepting what they cannot change.
- Acknowledging God’s eternal purpose—to use everything—to teach and mold us into Christ’s image.
One friend said, “When I’m in pain, I cling to God. Sometime I wonder if my faith would be as rich if I’d been a healthy woman.”
She admitted, “Some days, all I can do is pick up my son from school and put dinner on the table. On these days, it’s my choice to…
- Get angry and kick myself; feel like a failure.
- Compare myself to healthy friends; feel resentful.
- Have a pity party; feel sorry for myself
- Give myself grace; accept this is all I can do.
Her attitude echoes another friend’s words. “When I’m in pain, I try to pray like Jesus, ‘Father, Thy will be done.’”
Perhaps like me, you don’t deal with chronic pain. Maybe your adverse situation is unemployment or dealing with a loved one’s drug addiction. If so, there’s a lesson to be gleaned from Job’s Intolerable Compliment.
Honoring God even in this…..